Concerning unity of the Church Millard Erickson writes, “It
is important that Christians make sure that divisions and separation are due to
genuine convictions and principles, and not to personality conflicts or
individual ambition. It is a discredit to the cause of Christ when Christians
who hold the same beliefs and goal separate.”
Even without looking too broad outside of our local church,
this statement (which is considerably sound & commendable) is easier said
than done. If we are to acknowledge the reality of human relationships, it is
practically unavoidable that personality conflicts will happen. As hard it is
for us, being in the 21st century – relativistic society to be firm
on doctrinal conviction without being deemed intolerance, it is equally
difficult to avoid individualism that is so ingrained in our bones. Surely
personality traits will affect any kind of Christian ministry whether we like it
or not, not to mention our backgrounds, past experiences and spiritual
maturity.
With these in mind, especially as followers, how can we
preserve (or persevere in :-))
Church unity if, for instance, we face such conflict with spiritual leader
albeit not because of doctrinal principle. Let’s be honest to admit that even in
a denomination, many congregational splits or divisions happened due to factors
other than doctrinal differences. Doctrine aside, can we really work with people
that were “dictatorial” or gracious-less in their character? What if someone or
some groups of like-minded people choose to move on because they really can’t
solve their personality’s differences with others that seem to impede church
ministries?
I know this sounded a bit trivial and of course some would
point out that what matter the most is God’s work and about working
relationships. But really how far can we go before reaching the breaking point?
How can we wisely address this sensitive contemporary issue to preserve
believers’ unity? Given the propensity of today’s culture toward personal rights
and democratic system, how far could we appeal to our common biblical
convictions to address personality or cultural differences that could threaten
church unity?
